You are made of multiple desires

I — WHAT I NEED Vs WHAT I DESIRE

What I NEED to survive on this planet (food, water, clothing, a roof over my head, safety, sleep) brings fear (of survival) stress when I don’t have them.

What I DESIRE brings happiness and joy to my heart. Desires are happiness-creators.

Let’s take an example:

• When you say: "I need a baby", "I really need to have a baby" (to complete me, to save my marriage, to give my life a meaning)

What’s the message that your mind and your body are receiving here? FEAR! STRESS!

• When you say: "I desire to have a baby". I can close my eyes and already feel how it’s gonna be like, feel like, sound like, to have my baby in my arms and how amazing it’ll be".

What’s the message that your mind and your body are receiving here? SERENITY, JOY, PURE BLISS.

And it matters so much that you understand that because your body does react to Fear and Stress in very specific ways when it comes to Fertility which is that if your body’s dealing with Fear and Stress, if it thinks you’re in DANGER because you might not have your basic NEEDS met to survive on the planet - this may directly impact your hormonal systems.

So from today, start to say that you DESIRE to have a baby and bring peace and joy back into your world.

II — YOU CAN DESIRE MANY THINGS AT THE SAME TIME

Now that you understand the difference between NEEDS and DESIRES and how using one word or another can and does impact your fertility mind and body, let’s talk more specifically about DESIRES.

You are made to DESIRE.

You are made to DESIRE many things in your life.

And you are made to DESIRE many of them all at the same time.

Some of us have made it so clear that we NEED a baby that we forget to DESIRE anything else.

When you understand that you really DESIRE to have a baby, you also understand that there are many other things that you desire at the same time - and for some of us - this brings guilt and makes us question if we (after all) really want a baby if we start to dream about other things as well, experiences, realizations, achievements at the same time.

• I want to be a mother BUT I also want to show-up amazingly at my job = GUILT.

• I want to get pregnant but I also want to keep following my passions = GUILT.

• I want to have a child BUT I'd also love to experience (fill in the blanks) = GUILT.

So what happens to most of us? WE STAY STUCK. NO BABY. NO DESIRES. GUILT, DRYNESS.

Do you think you can only have one OR the other?

Do you think you only deserve a child if it’s the only thing you do and focus on 24/7 and forget about anything else that brings happiness and joy to your heart?

Is this guilty feeling resonating with you in one way or another as you read my words?

The challenge has never been to desire many things at the same time - because you were created to do exactly that, as a woman, you were created to nurture, bring to life and birth many of your desires through your lifetime.

The challenge is to be clear - every single day - that these are desires and not needs and that you can desire many things all at the same time.

WE ARE MADE OF DESIRES

AND IN OUR DESIRES WE FIND HAPPINESS

You can desire to have a baby,

And you can desire something else,

And you can desire something else,

And you can desire something else…

And all your desires can live within you all at the same time - peacefully and with joy in your heart. They can all coexist at the same time, evolve, come true, change, repeat themselves in a very healthy way - without having to choose between one or another - without guilt - with happiness, serenity and faith in your heart.

DESIRE TO HAVE A BABY.

DESIRE MANY THINGS IN YOUR LIFE.

KEEP MOVING FROM DESIRE TO DESIRE.

Every day, refine the process of focusing on the things you DESIRE, rather than the things you FEAR.

NURTURE, BRING TO LIFE, BIRTH MANY DESIRES THROUGH YOUR LIFETIME.

BRING LIGHTNESS, HAPPINESS AND JOY BACK INTO YOUR LIFE.